Showing posts with label Stationary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Stationary. Show all posts

Monday, September 19, 2011

The Details pt. 1

Life is all about the details. Weddings are no exception. As discerning urbanites, we wanted an escape from the mundane. More importantly, we wanted our wedding to be uniquely about us. This was by no means an easy feat to accomplish as what was expected from us was a very traditional Cambodian wedding. And yet somehow everything came together for us. We got what we wanted and so much more. Our theme? Moni & Aaron.

The primary colours for our wedding were Fuchsia and Teal. A vibrant shade of pink made perfect sense for a spring/summer wedding. I also loved how the fuchsia complimented the color teal my husband choose. We both love teal and our home is evidence of that - we painted the accent wall in our living room teal. Our kitchen is also a shade of teal with white trimming. So yeah...we heart teal! We also used a lot of gold in our wedding as a accent colour. Gold is a classic rich colour used in Cambodian weddings.

Concept wise, we wanted to keep things clean, simple, modern but also fun and whimsy. The colors and cultural influence created a marriage of modern meets lush jewel tone seaside soiree.


Teal Satin linens were much more inexpensive to buy than to rent. We also purchased fuchsia linens for the specialty tables (dessert bar, consumption bar, escort table and card table). The colors complimented the centerpiece decor. Our dinner set up was pretty basic and simple - not cluttered since with 7 courses we needed ample space on the table. Chopsticks were also provided by request. The disposable origami napkins were chic and cheap. As a Origamist, it added the perfect touch to our table setting.


I've always considered flowers to be an important aspect of a wedding. They bring color, texture, warmth and aroma to the ceremony and reception. Our venue is a blank white canvas so we used bright bold colours to paint life into them. The roses came in every shade of the rainbow which made it an easy choice for flowers. They are also available year round and are relatively inexpensive so I highly recommend brides to use them. Peonies are one of my favorite blooms and lucky for me they were also in season. Their lush fullness and vibrant pink hues are so dreamy. The billy balls aka Craspedia flowers and bear grass added texture and a whimsical look to the centerpiece.

- Special thanks to Sherry from Wholefoods University in Providence for turning my vision into a seamless reality.


We alternated the floral centerpieces with fuchsia Lotus candle holders made from capiz shells. They were small but had a big impact. Lotus flowers are significant symbols in Asian cultures especially in Buddhism. They represent elegance, beauty, purity and grace. Many of our guests loved them. We used soy candles because of their longevity - as oppose to using paraffin wax candles. It was also an eco-friendly choice too. The non-floral centerpieces helped cut down on the cost. They also last longer than fresh flowers so guests took them home as a keepsake favor.


We eschewed from the traditional choices for cake toppers. I didn't want a generic porcelain figurine, flowers or a monogram letter. Luckily Etsy provided a host of personalized options. We choose the custom clay couple from Etsy artist, Mudcards. she created cute cartoon figures of us. My husband wore his favorite sports team jersey under his suit while holding his xbox controller. I wanted to make sure to his other favorite hobby, tennis was also represented. I decided to have my figurine wear a traditional Cambodian outfit since I had no intentions of changing from my white wedding dress into one. My way of paying homage to our roots.


We had another Etsy artist create us a fabric scroll for us to use as a sign in guest book. We have a space spoken for it on one of the walls in our living room. It has the signature of all of our loves one on it. The Apsara monogram from our wedding invitation suite was also used in our paper luminaries and reserved cards. Unfortunately, I don't have any pictures of our luminaries from the wedding. We used mini picture frames I found at Target for $1 a piece as table numbers for our reserved tables.


Since we had no assigned seating for our guests, I had place cards made only for us and the bridal party. I had an Etsy artist laser cut their names in gold cardstock (our accent color). Our names doubled as decor at our reception which made for some nice pictures. I still have our place cards in the living room.



As I mentioned before, we had no assigned seating arrangement but we did reserve tables for some of our guests - mostly for the out of towners and our friends who are more accustomed to the Western style seating arrangements. I made a manzanita tree with the names and table numbers but one of the hiccups was we lost the bag containing the origami cranes with the names of our guests and the hanging crystals. Luckily, my day of coordinators quickly crafted paper punches with names of the guests and their table numbers. If time was on our side, I would have requested fresh blooms to decorate some of the branches.

The personalizations continued with the luminaries. I had a Etsy wedding and my penchant for paper things and hand crafted goods made up much of our decor. The Apsara luminaries (not pictured) and the custom name luminaries were placed in one of the many glass windows overlooking the beach. We used led lights for safety reasons to light them up. Our coordinators set up the name luminaries right behind the bar. It was the perfect place to greet our guests. We were careful not to go overboard.





Friday, August 26, 2011

Thank You Cards


Most brides - and grooms might find writing personal thank you notes to be a daunting task. Not moi! I relish in the art of writing. However, we are a little late with sending them out. The mister and I wanted to use our wedding photos as thank you cards so we had to wait until we received the pictures from our photographers. It also took me a bit of time finding the right card design. After scouring Etsy and the like for reasonably priced greeting cards, my fancy-self decided to have someone create us a digital template for a small fee. We choose a printing company, Nations Photo lab for their pressed cards with the metallic sheen but we had an issue with the order when they came in a few days ago. The photo "cards" were printed on photo paper instead of heavy card stock material like postcards. Part of the design (our pictures) were cut off. Needless to say, I was really disappointed and called up the company to complain about the so-called photo cards. They gave us a credit to reorder the cards. However, their ROES software program is really complicated. *Sigh* we should have used ProDpi, which is the best professional print lab in the U.S and Canada. Of course I wanted to save some moolah so we didn't order from them. It would have saved us the headache. So today I am going to try to get in touch with a rep at Nations Photo Lab so we can figure out how to place an order. Honestly, I find learning how to use Adobe photoshop easier than ordering from this company. Lesson learn!




Thursday, March 10, 2011

The Pen or the Printer

Etiquette, I'd like to kick you in the (__I__) right now! There is absolutely no way I will hand address all our wedding invitations after the Save the Date debacle (I found out that a good number of our Save the Dates did not travel to their intended destination). So yes, I had to resend a few more Save the Dates because I foolishly failed to put a return address on the postcard magnets.

Our Save the Dates were relatively inexpensive and easy to put together. But our wedding invites are a true labor of love. We rather not run the risk of ruining them with my not too shabby hand writing and Pepe's chicken scratch penmanship. Hiring a calligrapher was not in the budget but I didn't want tacky wrap around labels put on our elegant invitations. In the end we conceded to computer printed calligraphy. The results look better than I expected.


I found a faux calligraphy font on abstractfonts.com called Beautiful ES that was simple to read. The tricky task was setting up the envelope and labels in MS Word 03" because it did not allow for configuration of vertical spacing so everything typed looked double spaced. We tried to single space with little success until I stumbled upon a envelope template for our A7 (5.25 X 7.25) envelopes. Through a little trial and error and proper centering of feeding the envelopes, our old ink jet printer was able to print out the envelopes with no problems.

Notes
- Martha Stewart & The Knot has given their blessing in terms of computer printer calligraphy
- Tape the flaps to prevent the envelopes from jamming the printer.
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- Addressing guests can be a tough task especially if cultural customs and practices play a part in the etiquette process. For instance, it is customary to include "& Family" in Cambodian culture because you usually invite the entire family (including older children, elders in the family or single parents with children). It is also very common for women in Cambodian culture to retain their maiden name. So it is important to note that when addressing invites to the couple.
- For general etiquette guidelines in Western culture, click the link below.
Wedding Invitation Envelope Etiquette

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Sign-in Scrolls: The Alternative Guestbook


Fill your paper with the breathings of your heart. ~William Wordsworth

In Chinese culture, a common practice at weddings is to have a scroll available for guests to sign. After the wedding, the newlyweds would either frame or hang the scroll in their new home. Unlike a traditional guest book which is usually stored away and rarely gets open, a hanging scroll "guest book" is a unique way of displaying the sweet words and well wishes of friends and love ones. Most often the scroll is backed by red silk brocade, fine paper for writing and features a double happiness symbol. I have seen other variations available online and in some specialty stores in Chinatown but I was looking for something more personalized as I wanted to have our names, monogram and wedding date on the scroll too. I stumbled upon ArtfulBeginnings' custom work via Etsy (of course!) and quickly fell in love with her designs in wedding scroll invitations and vintage hankies. She is going to construct our "guest book" using a cotton sateen fabric and hand paint the borders in gold to match one of our wedding colors. The size of the scroll is approx 14 x 30 which should be sufficient space for our guests count (180ish) I'm also going to provide guests with colorful fabric markers for writing. I'm really looking forward to seeing the final product. And yes I will post pics!

Friday, December 3, 2010

Invite Sample


Our first English sample invite is completed! We still need to tweak one or two things but otherwise they turned out better than we expected. Yay to DIY! BTW this was printed on our ink jet printer with no problem - using metallic text paper and backed with metallic gold card stock from Paper and More. Custom designed by Kemba Celebrations on etsy.

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

DIY Invites

Materials

1. PDF File Custom Designed Invite Suite $125
(created by Kemba Celebrations on Etsy)
Note - $50 for the PDF file & $75 for custom design monogram, which is feat. throughout our invite suite. The splurged was on the one-of-a-kind design of a Apsara motif with our initials.

2. Guest List w/ Contact Info
-We use Google Docs spread sheet to keep tabs on our guests list


3. Paper Cutter: Tonic Studios 12-inch Guillotine Paper Cutter $30.00
- This paper cutter is considered a favorite among scrap book enthusiasts and crafters

(Overstock.com)

4. Adhesive Tool: Glue Glider Pro $15
- Easy to use and cost effective adhesive with no mess!

(Cards and Pockets)

5. Laser Printer - We have a family member who has offered to print our invites.

6. Calligraphy pens: Pilot Varsity Fine Tip Disposable Fountain Pens $2
- My new favorite writing pens! They have a real nib that makes for smooth writing.

7. Paper Supply:

Text Paper - 8.5 X 11 Pearlescent White Metallic Text Paper 100/$20
( Paper and More)

5 X 7 Panel Card Stock - Pearlescent Metallic Gold 100/$14
(Paper and More)

3 5/8 x 5 1/8 RSVP Envelope - European Flap style 0.12 per piece
(Cards and Pockets)

5.25 X 7.25 or A7 Invite Envelope - European Flap style 0.17 per piece
(Cards and Pockets)

Notes:
The 8.5 X 11 size text paper produces TWO 4.5 X 6.5 invite which will be layered onto the 5 X 7 panel. It gives a 1/4 inch border frame. This fits a A7 envelope purrfectly.
RSVP Card & Event info card is 3.5 X 5 ( printed on left over text paper). We ordered extra envelopes for mistakes and the left overs will be used for T.Y notes. We have not included postage costs since most of the invites will be delivered in person.

Estimated Quantity: 60 English Invitation Suites, 30-35 Khmer Invitations w/ some that will include RSVP and Event card.

First Set: English invites include a full invitation suite (Invite, RSVP Card & Event Card)
We hope to have them completed before Christmas vacation because we intend to hand deliver some of them to our close friends and family on our trip to California. The rest of the English invites will be sent out in early March. We have set the RSVP due date 3 weeks before our wedding date.

Note: Etiquette dictates wedding invitations should be sent out 8 weeks before the wedding. RSVP due date is usually 2-3 weeks before the wedding date.

Second Set: Cambodian Invites will not include an entire invite suite since it is not Cambodian custom to RSVP. However a few will include RSVP and Event cards for some of our guests who also follow Western customs. This does worry us a bit as our space has a capacity of 200 people. The Khmer invites will also be printed at a later time as we do not know the formality regarding the proper wording. A friend or family member will be assisting us when the time comes as I don't read or write in Khmer *hangs head in shame* We will hand deliver most of the invites and send out the rest to OOT guests.

Saturday, November 6, 2010

Custom Crazy: Etsy Finds

Nobody wants a cookie cutter wedding. So why not put your own spin on things by having personalizations that will make your wedding a memorable event! Etsy, the global market place for unique goods and hand crafted artifacts has a section devoted to weddings. There is everything from one of kind custom cake toppers to snazzy bride maids gifts. It's truly your one stop place for creative finds.

Some Etsy goods we purchased for our wedding include a custom made rubber address stamp from Sugar Letter. We also had wedding stationary created by Kemba Celebrations. There are a few more customizations we have in mind.


For our head table - Custom Name Luiminaries lit by mini led tea lights. I intend to add fresh or silk flowers as accent to the luminaries. The color of the card stock and font can be customized. Symbols can also be added too. See Paper Acorn for more designs and pricing info.

A custom cake banner ($20) with a paper bride and groom cake topper ($8) adds a fun factor with vintage charms. Created by Ready Go

As part of the gift set to my bridesmaid, I wanted to
give them each a silk dupioni cosmetic envelope or jewelry roll (pictured above). I'm going to include a treasure trove of beauty products and some nifty trinkets as a way of saying thanks. I also want a money bag with Pepe's last name customized on it. Prices range from $10.99-$28.99 Created by Plethora

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Stamp of Approval


Featured via Martha Stewart Weddings, these custom calligraphy rubber stamps are sure to dress up any invite. As a font fanatic, my biggest problem is choosing just one! The custom stamp addresses range from $15-$69 on Etsy. J'adore the designs at SugarLetter, Lovetocreatestamps, and Emililies (work featured above)

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Sneak Peak: Monogram Design




Our invite designer, Kemba Celebrations recently sent us monogram designs I had them create for our stationary. We really love the color combo of the third monogram as it is a beautiful marriage of colours with the metallic gold card stock backing, the pearlescent paper with cornflower blue and fuschia colours. It will look similar to this invite but with our Apsara monogram and using the floral lattice pattern Kemba created for their social event collection. We still have to work on wording our English invites, RSVP and Event card. A blank text will be used for the Khmer invitation suite. Hopefully, we will have our STD and Invites completed by the end of the year as we do have to send them earlier since half our guest are OOT.


Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Wedding Website

After much procrastination, I decided it was time for me to start working on our wedding website as we need to select a Save the Date (STD) design. I plan on having the website link printed on the STD. This will save us a ton of time and some money, not to mention a few trees. We won't have to print any additional cards for the invites (only RSVP and Event Card). I will also see if having one Fan Menu (created by our invite designer, KembaCelebrations) placed on every table is feasible. I am still not certain if I will have programs available for the traditional ceremony as we have a tight stationary budget. We will have all our wedding related information available on our new website, Moni & Aaron. Weddingwire.com made it so easy to create the wedding website with their diverse selection of templates and easy to follow instructions. It didn't take me long to get started.

Thursday, April 29, 2010

Inspiration Board IX


I truly love the color combos used in this inspiration board. I don't even mind this shade of yellow. Bright and Brilliant!

Invite Etiquette: Reception Only

My FI and I are planning to have a small intimate backyard affair for the wedding followed by a grand reception on the beach. The wedding ceremony will take place at my parent's home (as tradition dictates). Their home simply cannot accommodate a large crowd. This is why we have to limit are guest list to close friends and family. I also want to spare most of my guests the 5 hour long ordeal. Guests are allowed to move freely throughout the day. However, the ceremonies are long and arduous so it can be a very tiring experience for everyone involved (especially the bride and groom). As for invites, we will have to make two sets of invitations. This has proven to be a slippery slope because we don't want to offend guests by not following proper etiquette. The formal invites will be in Khmer (Cambodian language) and include an invitation to both the wedding ceremony and reception while most of the English invites will be for the Reception Only. I have narrowed down the wording for both sets but I'm not sure I want to include the last line for the Reception Only invite. Does it sound better without it?

Bride's Name & Groom's Name

Along with their parents invite you to share in the celebration of their marriage on Sunday May 29th, 2011
6 pm at Blah Blah Place, City by the Sea, R.I
Black Tie Optional

A private wedding ceremony will precede the reception

Thursday, December 10, 2009

DIY Invites


For Budget Brides or DIY Brides who want to add a more personal touch to their wedding, nothing says that more than making your own invites. Wedding invitations are the prelude to the happiest day of your life, setting the stage for the wedding itself. They reflect your personality and style, and there are a number of DIY websites that can assist you in creating the perfect invitation. Eastcosta112 from the R.I Knot board was just a wealth of knowledge. She shared her experience with finding the perfect site to create invites. She compared Cards and Pockets, Paper and More to more expensive competitors like Paper Source, Envelopments, and Archivers.

Paper and More
- Inexpensive pricing
- Inexpensive sample sets
- Large selection of forms including large sheets, pre-cut and packaged letter sized - sheets, envelopes and accessories
- Wide range of colors
- High quality paper products
- Sale items

Cards and Pockets
- Inexpensive pricing
- Inexpensive sample sets
- Large selection of forms including large sheets, pre-cut and packaged letter sized sheets, envelopes and accessories
- Pocket Fold Kits
- Excellent customer service
- Offers discount codes on a regular basis and has sale items
- High quality paper products

Examples of Pricing

Cards and Pockets
- Approximately
$138 for 80 smoke pockets, cream invitation, pansy mat, 2 inserts and RSVP, and pearl envelope with invitation kit
- Approximately the same price with buying everything separately and going with metallic inserts/invite/mat/envelope.

V.S

Archivers
- Approximately $65.97 per 25 invites
- Approximately $197.91 for 75 pockets ( invitations, mat, precut 2 inserts and rsvp, NO ENVELOPE (Envelope set of 25 priced separately)
- Pocket folds are sold separately 39.99 per set of 25
- The invitation mats are 5.99 per set of 25 ( sold separately from the precut inserts and invitation 19.99 per set of 25)

&

Envelopements
- pockets 5x7 signature side all metallic-pocket, cardstock set of 10, $205 ($245 with envelopes) - all matte pocket and cardstock, $169 ($202 with envelopes)
- $1.70 matte, $2.00 metallic pocket, 44 cents matte, 60 cents metallic (8.5 x 11 cardstock)
- gate fold in sets of 10 all metallic gate fold, cardstock, $149 ($189 with envelopes)
- all matte gate fold and cardstock, $121 ($154 with envelopes)
- $1.30 metallic, $1.10 matte gate fold, 44 cents matte, 60 cents metallic 8.5x11 cardstock
- envelopes in sets of 10, 42 cents for matte, 50 cents for metallic and 18 cents for clear